No matter how much the world looks down upon them, the days of being a player will always be the most enjoyable and cherished days in a man’s life. Sadly though, everything expires and so will your status of a ‘player’. You will try hard to resist it at first; blame it on that one girl who changed it all but ultimately, you will come to terms with the fading days of bedding strangers. It just happens, no matter how much you deny settling down.
1) Being Promiscuous Doesn’t Excite You Anymore
Gone are the days when you were all fired up to hit the bar and sweet talk your next catch back to your place. You now feel happier in the company of a few close friends, some beer and a stay-at-home movie.
2) That ‘One’ Girl Who Just Doesn’t Stop Popping Up In Your Thoughts
Hate it or love it, this girl has actually put an expiry date on your player card. You might have met her just once, seen her at a party or would have even casually dated her, fact is you just can’t stop thinking about her. And it’s not just infatuation.
3) Even Hot Women You Meet In Bars Don’t Seem As Appealing As This Girl
You will hate admitting this fact but this one girl, to you, is far more appealing than the super sexy girls you meet now and then. Not that she is exceptionally hot or anything, but you are attracted to her in an unexplainable way.
4) Your Married Friends Seem To Be Giving You Fodder For Thought
Settle down, man. Get married dude, high time. You hardly ever paid attention to all these snippets of gyan from your married friends before, but somehow these thoughts are crossing your mind more than ever now.
5) You Strangely Feel Happy For You Bros In Serious Relationships
There was a time when you strongly counselled your ‘bros in serious relationships’ trying your best to talk them out of their commitment. Now though, you feel happy seeing him with his girl. That’s strange, but it’s happening!
6) You Start Feeling A Bit Guilty Here And There
The wild nights are the same but it’s your guilt that has started tripping now. Your serial flirting and hooking up with random girls has now started bothering your conscience.
7) The Idea Of Spending Time With The Significant Other Appears More Appealing Now
You were proud of your lifestyle – wild partying, standard one-night stands and a strong stand against relationships. But now, you feel tired of it all and start realizing that a going on a dinner date with a special lady and spending time with her might just be better.
8) You Have Started To Look For Meaningful Sex
Till now, all your sexual escapades were only physically satisfying and far from being rooted emotionally. All you have had is a fumbling chemistry with wasted strangers who probably wouldn’t even remember your name when the sun comes up and the liquor washes out. You are now longing for a sexual encounter fuelled by emotions with the person you care about.