We’re simple creatures. Women are so not! We tried to understand why women complicate things so much, tried some and then gave up. It’s great to fall in love with a woman, but sometimes her annoying habits can be really taxing. However great the initial romance may be, the moment a girl suffixes the word ‘friend’ to her gender, life gets complicated. Here are the 10 things we really wish women wouldn’t do in a relationship.
Conversations are nice; speak-a-thons are not. Silence is very precious to men. We really wish we didn’t have to stare into the distance when the girlfriend goes on yapping about what went wrong, what went right, who said what, why they said what they said and what not.
Asking Rhetorical Questions
How, just how, do we answer a question like “Do I look fat?” Girlfriends ask this one question every time they try on a new dress. Is it not obvious enough when the dress rips apart when she exhales?
Trying To Change Us
Women feel the constant need to change their men into Barbies. If they had all the control to themselves, they would actually be painting our nails and colouring our cheeks red. Constantly trying to change a person into someone he is not will only push him away, which is something women will probably never understand. It’s time they understand the word acceptance.
Being Too Possessive Or Ignorant
You know what a pain a clingy girlfriend is. The ‘too-independent-to-care’ girlfriend is no better. Somewhere in between lies the desirable combination that girls fail to understand. Girlfriends need to learn the balancing act.
Not Understanding Our Passions
Guys have their own passions. Gaming doesn’t make a man an overgrown child! Men look for acceptance and support in a relationship as much as women.
Flirting With Everybody But Not Us
There is nothing wrong with flirting. In fact, when our girlfriends start off conversations with other men, we feel good to know that there will be a hundred men who would envy us for dating such an incredible woman, as long as we get the due attention. But nobody appreciates a girlfriend who flirts with everybody except her boyfriend!
Intruding Into Our Private Space
We all like to have some alone time once in a while. A lot of men draw energy from being on their own, doing absolutely nothing. However much we may love our girlfriend, there is no way any person is coming in between us and our privacy. Girlfriends really need to respect our need for privacy and personal space.
Washing Dirty Linen In Public
There is something very strange about women and the way they deal with fights. It is like they are waiting to broadcast the fight to the whole world as soon as it ends. Fights and arguments are inevitable in a relationship. But women can really do without updating their Facebook status or Tweeting about it.
There is no bigger a turn off than a woman who keeps whining. We understand they like sharing their feelings with us, but beyond a point, needless ranting is all you can see in their words. Our lives aren’t any easier, but we do realize that nagging is not going to take us anywhere anyway! So they might as well just deal with it like adults!
Leaving Us With A Hard On
Okay, if there is any girl out there who does that, damn you! Giving a man blue balls is the worst thing a girlfriend could do. Foreplay is great but too much foreplay and no sex is a disappointment we men take a while to recover from.